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Chapter 2: The house that wasn't Home

Adela

Adela

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When the harmattan winds stop coming, that's when we'll know the spirits have abandoned us.

Adela

Adela

The Woman Beneath the Wife

Afripad

When the harmattan winds stop coming, that's when we'll know the spirits have abandoned us.

Adela

Adela

The Woman Beneath the Wife

Afripad

When the harmattan winds stop coming, that's when we'll know the spirits have abandoned us.

Adela

Adela

The Woman Beneath the Wife

Afripad

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The first person to speak was not Nma, it was Uncle Joseph.

"What do you mean she's no longer in school?" He asked, the question hung in the evening air like distant thunder.

Her father shifted in his chair beneath the udala tree. "I've made my decision."

"You've made the wrong one."

The compound fell silent because no one challenged Nma's father in front of the family. No one at all, yet here was his elder brother-in-law doing exactly that.

"Joseph," one of the elders interrupted, "this matter has already been settled."

"No," Uncle Joseph replied calmly.

"It has only been decided."

"There is a difference."

Nma watched quietly from the doorway, afraid to breathe. Her uncle was unlike every other man in the family. He spoke gently, listened before answering, believed respect did not require silence and most importantly, he believed girls deserved dreams too.

"You said she came first in her examinations?" he asked and her father nodded reluctantly.

"Then why stop her?"

"Because she is a girl."

Joseph sighed, "No, you are stopping her because you are afraid."

The old men exchanged confused looks.

"A man who fears educating his daughter is afraid of what education will teach her."

No one spoke. Uncle Joseph turned toward Nma. "Do you still want to study?"

She answered before anyone else could. "More than anything."

He smiled. "Good."

Then he looked back at her father. "Let her come with me to Enugu, I'll take responsibility for her. I have a computer business where she can help after school but I'll make sure she continues her education."

Hope returned so suddenly that it almost hurt. Nma looked at her father. Surely he would agree, after all, he wouldn't be paying, he wouldn't even have to watch over her so the decision seemed obvious.

Her father remained quiet for a long time. Finally he nodded once.

"If that's what you want, take her."

Nma cried the night before she left, because she had never slept anywhere except her mother's house. Her sisters surrounded her on the raffia mat they shared.

Little Ifeoma refused to let go of her arm. "You'll come back?"

"I will." "You promise?" "I promise."

Chioma handed her a folded handkerchief she had sewn herself, "So you don't forget us."

Ada quietly slipped roasted groundnuts into her travel bag. "You'll get hungry."

Even Emeka and Obinna, who rarely cried, stood awkwardly by the doorway. Their older sister had always been there, she had packed their school bags, scolded them when they fought, covered for them when they broke plates and now she was leaving.

Their mother hugged her for so long that neither of them noticed they were both crying.

~

Everything about Enugu felt enormous: the roads, the buildings, the noise, even the markets seemed too big to understand. She had never seen so many cars, traffic lights and she had never seen a supermarket either. For the first few days she wandered through Uncle Joseph's compound staring at everything with quiet amazement. His house had three bedrooms, running water, electricity that stayed on longer than two hours and a television with dozens of channels. It felt like another country.

His children welcomed her warmly. David, the eldest, was fourteen. Esther was eleven, Daniel had just turned seven. They called her Sister Nma before the first day ended.

For the first time in months, she allowed herself to hope again.

Her aunt, Beatrice, also appeared kind.

"You've become part of this family now, you'll never lack anything here."

Nma believed every word. She helped with cooking, swept the compound, washed plates without being asked. She wanted to prove she wasn't a burden.

Three weeks later, the house help disappeared. Nma noticed first.

"Where is Ngozi?"

"Oh," Aunt Beatrice replied casually while stirring soup, "I sent her back to her village."

Nma frowned. "Why?"

"We don't need two girls in the house." She smiled. "And besides, you're here now."

Nma smiled politely, he didn't understand what those words truly meant yet.

Slowly the work increased. She woke before everyone else, prepared breakfast, bathed Daniel, ironed school uniforms, swept the compound, washed clothes by hand, cooked lunch, prepared dinner, cleaned the kitchen, washed dishes, locked the doors, then repeated everything the next day.

At first she didn't mind, she was grateful, she kept reminding herself that Uncle Joseph had rescued her from the village, so this was only temporary and school registration would come soon.

Every evening she quietly asked herself the same question. "Maybe next session."

One Saturday afternoon she finally gathered enough courage to ask.

"Aunty..."

"Yes?"

"When will Uncle register me for school?"

The spoon in Aunt Beatrice's hand stopped moving, she looked up slowly. "School?"

"Yes, Uncle said..."

"I know what Uncle said." She continued stirring the pot, "but things have changed."

"What changed?"

"Money."

Nma nodded. "I can wait until the next session."

Her aunt laughed softly. "No, I don't think you understand." She turned around. "Joseph has three children, they'll all go to university and school fees are expensive. We cannot spend that kind of money educating another person's daughter."

The words landed so gently and made them hurt even more.

That evening Uncle Joseph returned from work carrying admission forms from a university. His smile disappeared the moment he entered the sitting room, the forms lay untouched on the table.

Beatrice folded her arms. "We've discussed this."

"No," Joseph answered quietly. "You discussed it."

"We cannot afford it."

"We can."

"We won't."

"It is my money."

"It is our family."

The argument lasted over an hour, Nma remained in the kitchen pretending not to hear but every word pierced her heart.

After a while, Uncle Joseph walked into the kitchen carrying the unopened forms, his shoulders looked heavier than she had ever seen them.

"I'm sorry." He could barely meet her eyes, "I tried."

Nma forced a smile. "It's alright, Uncle."

"No, It isn't." He placed the forms back inside his briefcase.

"I still want you to learn something." He thought for a moment, "Come to the computer centre on Monday, I'll teach you the business, It isn't nursing." He smiled sadly, "But it's a beginning."

Nma nodded because by now she had learned that life rarely asked what she wanted, it simply handed her another version of survival.

Monday soon morning arrived. The sign above the shop read: JOSEPH DIGITAL BUSINESS WORLD

Inside, Nma stopped in amazement there were rows of computers, photocopiers humming constantly, printers spitting out pages, university students typing assignments, civil servants photocopying documents. The room buzzed with possibility and for the first time since leaving the village, she felt curiosity replace disappointment.

Perhaps, just perhaps, life still had something to teach her.

The first thing Nma learned about the computer center was that it never truly slept.

From the moment Uncle Joseph rolled up the metal shutters each morning until he locked them again after sunset, people came and went without pause.

Every document told a story, every customer seemed to be standing at the beginning of something.

Nma often wondered when her own beginning would arrive. Within weeks, she had learned more than she imagined possible.

She could type almost as fast as Uncle Joseph, she learned to photocopy documents without jamming the machine, she laminated certificates, bound undergraduate projects, designed simple business cards and even created wedding programs. Sometimes customers assumed she had studied computer science.

She laughed whenever they asked and always replied, "No, I just learned by watching."

Her favorite customers were the nursing students, every Thursday afternoon they arrived in groups wearing crisp white uniforms. The first time she saw them, she froze. White dresses and white caps, everything she had imagined as a little girl. As they laughed while typing assignments, Nma quietly watched from behind the counter with longing.

One afternoon a nursing student noticed. "You like the uniform?"

Nma smiled. "I used to dream of wearing one."

The student laughed kindly, "Then wear it."

Nma looked away. "Some dreams wait longer than others."

~

Years passed sadly with Nma still working at the computer center. One rainy Tuesday morning, a young man pushed open the glass door carrying a brown envelope tucked beneath his arm.

He looked to be in his late twenties, he was tall and neatly dressed.

"Good morning." He greeted.

"Good morning," Nma replied.

"I need help typing an application letter."

She gestured toward the chair opposite her desk. "Please sit."

He handed her several handwritten pages, the handwriting was remarkably neat.

As she typed, she occasionally glanced at the document, It was an application for a managerial position at a logistics company.

"You have beautiful handwriting," she said without thinking.

He smiled. "Thank you, my mother forced me to practice."

"My mother forced me too."

They both laughed, he introduced himself as Chinedu Okafor.

Over the following months, he returned often.

Sometimes to type reports, sometimes to print documents, sometimes for photocopies and sometimes for no reason at all.

He always chose Nma's desk, even when the others were free and uncle Joseph noticed long before Nma did.

One Saturday, Chinedu lingered after the last customer had left.

"Nma..."

"Yes?"

"May I ask you something?"

She nodded.

"Would it offend you if I visited your uncle's house?"

She immediately understood and her heart beat a little faster, "You mean..."

"Yes, I'd like to speak properly."

She smiled shyly. "I'll tell my uncle."

A week later, Chinedu arrived carrying kola nuts and drinks. He spoke respectfully, answered every question patiently, and explained that he had recently secured a stable position with a transport company. He wanted to build a home, not simply marry a wife.

After he left, Aunt Beatrice was the first to speak. "He seems responsible."

Uncle Joseph nodded. "I agree." Then he turned to Nma, "What do you think?"

She hesitated, "I don't know him well."

"Then get to know him."

For six months they courted. They talked, they walked, attended church programs together and learned each other's stories.

One evening, as they sat beneath a mango tree after choir practice, Chinedu asked,

"What did you dream of becoming before life interrupted?"

The question surprised her, no one had asked that in years.

She smiled sadly. "I wanted to become a nurse."

"Wanted?"

"I still want to."

He looked at her carefully. "Then why not?"

She explained everything: the village, her father, the cancelled education and working at the computer center. By the time she finished, darkness had settled around them.

Chinedu remained silent for a long moment, finally he reached across the wooden bench and gently took her hand. "Nma, I need you to hear me. If we marry, your education does not end."

She looked at him unsure she had heard correctly.

He continued. "I don't want to marry a woman who abandons her dreams, I want to marry the woman God created you to become."

Tears gathered in her eyes.

She gently withdrew her hand. "There is something I must say before this goes any further."

He nodded.

"If we get married, I must return to school and I must send my sisters to school too." She spoke slowly, carefully choosing every word. "I have already lost too many years, I cannot lose the rest. I will work, I will support our home, I will even wait until we are financially stable if we have to. But I need you to promise me something."

He waited.

"Promise me that one day I will wear that nursing uniform and my sisters too will be what they want to be"

The evening breeze stirred the leaves above them. Chinedu smiled, Then, with all the certainty of a man who believed tomorrow always kept today's promises, he said, "I promise, even If God blesses us with ten children, I'll still make sure you become Nurse Nma."

She searched his face and found no hesitation, only sincerity.

For the first time since leaving her village, someone had not laughed at her dream. Someone had not dismissed it because she was a woman, he had looked at her and seen more than a future wife.

She smiled through her tears.

"Then, I think I'd like to marry you."

But Something Nma did not know was that some promises are broken not in a single moment, but one ordinary day at a time.

At twenty-two, Nma believed love was something you built one ordinary day at a time.

The wedding was simple, just two families, church members, neighbors, and friends gathered to witness two people begin a life together.

On that day, uncle Joseph has given her the old Biology textbook. The same one her secondary school teacher had given her years earlier.

"I thought I lost it." She has said

"I kept it safe," Uncle Joseph replied. "I always believed you'd need it again."

Nma had held the worn bo

ok against her chest, in that moment she was sixteen again.

"I'll make you proud, Uncle. And when I become a nurse, you'll be the first person I thank."

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